tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post2068905136680999780..comments2023-07-21T05:17:50.579-04:00Comments on Losing Michelle: When Just A Hug Is Not EnoughMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14102164992606199675noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-53626343598785303322009-10-28T23:15:13.898-04:002009-10-28T23:15:13.898-04:00Change your mind. Hug your husband. These are so...Change your mind. Hug your husband. These are so much easier said than done. <br /><br />I agree that the order should be God, spouse, children. If God's not first then your family is out of wack. If you and your spouse are out of wack then your kids will be screwed up. <br /><br />So you're not a touchy feely person....so what. That's you. There's no rule that says the touchy feely person wins (and I'm a touchy feely person), but instead maybe we should just meet people where they are. Nate accepts you. You accept Nate. He doesn't hug you probably as much as he wants, but you still let him hug you. It's compromise. <br /><br />Learning to live in the moment is HARD....HARD...HARD. I'm not a wife or a mother, but I used to be, and let me tell you, being single with no one else to be responsible for does NOT make it easier to live and enjoy "the moment". <br /><br />I will say this...the dishes CAN wait, and that is something that I wish I would have grasped when I was a wife and mother. I would have played a lot harder, and spent a lot more time on the floor. <br /><br />Don't be so hard on yourself.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10754209346927107402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-26624192164216988622009-10-27T14:42:51.742-04:002009-10-27T14:42:51.742-04:00this is such a beautiful blog...i went immediately...this is such a beautiful blog...i went immediately frol laughter to tears...you really touched me w/this oneTonyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-4566731029278770972009-10-22T08:49:15.059-04:002009-10-22T08:49:15.059-04:00Lovin' the award!Lovin' the award!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102164992606199675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-49125524875271756682009-10-22T02:15:43.876-04:002009-10-22T02:15:43.876-04:00Hey ladybird, it's rare that I land on a blog ...Hey ladybird, it's rare that I land on a blog and end up reading more than just the first post. Well done! In fact, I'm giving you my "Dicth Pick" award! Come to my site to copy it off, it has your name on it...<br />Jenna<br />P.S I redid it blue to match your blog! Keep the posts commingJennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03426024793351418764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-52152681221703755852009-10-22T01:53:59.468-04:002009-10-22T01:53:59.468-04:00Well, look at the bright side. It could be worse. ...Well, look at the bright side. It could be worse. At least they're not ass slappers. Those get ME! Visiting from MBC...<br /><br />Jenna<br />http://www.jennaintheditch.blogspot.com/Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03426024793351418764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-62153555787587844902009-10-21T20:11:16.804-04:002009-10-21T20:11:16.804-04:00Thanks, Tony. You are right about God should be fi...Thanks, Tony. You are right about God should be first.<br /><br />BTW- There's LOTS of hugfests... LOTS.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102164992606199675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6368262301012259938.post-12504555114264667992009-10-21T15:46:39.820-04:002009-10-21T15:46:39.820-04:00I started laughing after the second sentence becau...I started laughing after the second sentence because I knew...Here it comes!<br /><br />Hug your hub Shell! It's a very small sacrifice for your comfort-zone to make. By the way, it should be God, spouse then children according to my Bible...I'm just saying.<br /><br />I'm still laughing thinking about you at Granny's house during a hugfest.Tony Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05525644107594362899noreply@blogger.com